1 ) Don’t ask to kiss her, just make the fucking move.
I hear this from SO many girls! They’ll respect you a lot more if you just go for broke than if you timidly try to make a move. Don’t ask, just make the move!
If you want to know how to make it smooth, do this: when the conversation’s going well, (that means you’re both adding to the conversation and laughing and having a good time) hold eye contact for a second. Look at her lips, then back to her eyes, and start moving your face towards hers. She’ll move her face towards yours unless you REALLY misread her. You get extra points if you skip the first kiss and whisper in her ear how sexy she is. Women like to be teased, and they like to feel beautiful, so doing both at once will drive her CRAZY in a good way.
2 ) Don’t be afraid to be silly.
Yes, women want a man who’s smooth, confident, and seems to always have an answer. However, they also want to know you can relate to them. Even the most beautiful women have their klutzy moments, times when they turn into silly little girls that want to play, and a man who can be confident, even when he’s being silly and playful will be the man who gets to see her carnal-woman side! 
3 ) Never compare any woman to another even to a celebrity.
I’m pretty sure it’s common knowledge that women want to feel special. When you compare a women to another women, she will not feel special, even if it’s in a positive light. If you say, “You’re so much prettier than her,” she may feel good about being more beautiful, but then she’ll worry about not dancing as well, or whatever. There’s a million things women feel self-conscious about, and giving her an excuse to doubt herself is not something you want to do if you want her to feel safe with you.
Obviously, comparing women negatively or neutrally to another woman carries the same issues as comparing positively, but there’s absolutely NO CHANCE she’ll take it positively. Women consider it a dick move, every time, don’t do it.
4 ) Be honest, even when you think it’s going to hurt her. She’s an adult, treat her like one. No one likes to be patronized.
Women are ok with WAY more than society would have you believe. One night stands are acceptable for some of both sexes, as are non-commited relationships. The only time any sort of relationship isn’t ok is if the people involved aren’t honest with each other.
Be honest about your expectations and desires, and let her decide if she wants to jump on your particular love train. If she doesn’t, I promise, there’s plenty of people out there who will, so move on.
Lying is never the answer.
5 ) Don’t talk about your exes in detail to her.
This also relates to making a woman feel special. If you hate on your ex, women are going to think you’ll feel the same way at the end of your new relationships, and that’s a red flag. If you talk too glowingly, she’ll think you’re not over your ex, and isn’t going to want to fill a void for you. Enjoy the memories, being honest is ok, but living in the past is never sexy.
And DON’T EVER tell a woman how many notches you have in your bed post! It’s not classy, no one cares, it makes you sound like an insecure, womanizing asshole.
6 ) Foreplay is more than just physical, it’s also emotional. Engage my mind and body, and the sex will be far better for both of us.
Don’t bother all the books on sex you can. A man who can get through the entirety of the ABCs with his tongue in 30 seconds has nothing on the man who knows how to engage her emotionally. A man who can handle her ups and downs, who she can count on to make me laugh even when her family is driving her insane and she has an important project due tomorrow, and who can absolutely bring out her feminine side with his masculine is the kind of man who gets to see the sexual side of women that most men never even know is there.
“Women want a nice guy in the living room, and a bad boy in the bedroom.” -David Shade
7 ) Don’t put up with her shit. She’ll get mad, and respect you more after.
Women are emotional creatures. Sometimes they’re going to lose their shit, and be silly, just to make sure you’re still the man she fell in love with. If you cave in to her emotions, then she’s going to question if you’re strong enough for her. If you just check out, and stop paying attention to her, she’s going to question if you even care about her.
In either case, she’ll lose respect, trust, and attraction for you. If you stay with her, and love and care for her through her emotional turmoil, you’re in for a wild night!
8 ) Make her feel appreciated
Most women LOVE to take care of their men. They want to know that they’re protected by their man, and safe, and in return, she’ll do a thousand little things to make your life easier. However, the second you stop appreciating the little things she does, she’s going to start resenting you, and may even start looking for a man who will appreciate her.
There’s a lot of ways to make a woman feel appreciated. A simple thank you will do for most, a kiss works well. A little love note on her pillow can do WONDERS. Roses on no special occasion, just to show her that you still care is ultimate win. Women tend to not care about the big things. They’ll remember the trip to Bali, but it’ll be the plastic necklace you got from the Disney store that has her favorite princess on it that she’ll make her melt.
It’s the thought that counts for women of high quality.
9 ) Be present!
You know the old rule, “Keep your eyes closed when you kiss her?” It stems from this rule. If she opens her eyes when she’s making out with you, and sees you looking away, she’s going to think she’s less important than what ever you’re peeping at. When you’re with a woman, BE WITH THE WOMAN! Women are acutely aware of people’s emotional states, and she can feel if you’re “there” or if you’re daydreaming when you spend time together.
Presence is what creates that feeling of a bubble around people, when everyone else just floats away until you end up with a world of your own. Women like that feeling. Women feel presence, for them it’s like a warmth that you can share in everything you do with her. Whether you’re holding her hand or making love, women know when you’re present, and when you are, it’s like electricity, and it’ll turn her on!
10 ) Show physical affection
Women love to be touched by people they like. I haven’t met a healthy woman who doesn’t like physical affection. Whether it’s kissing often, holding hands, or putting your arm around her, women like knowing that you’re there. A LOT of communication happens through touch, and if you’re not, you’re missing a huge avenue that can say more than words ever could.
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I like this. Pretty much right on target. Especially like #4. Sometimes men lie because they don’t want to hurt us. I say let me decide what hurts and let me decide how much. Be honest (especially about the tough stuff) and you’ve got my interest!