I came upon a new realization lately. It’s new for me, but I’ve seen it written elsewhere. What I’ve internalized recently is the fact that while I prefer not to go home the same night I meet someone, choosing instead to have a date not involving a club. However, that tends to not be what women have in mind.
See, I’m very sexual when I meet someone I’m interested in. I’m very direct, there’s never any question of who I’m interested in, and so attraction is immediate. My kinesthetic communication will progress, while I’m also casually going into rapport, which amps up the sexual tension because of the dichotomy of the situation. At that point, women need a release, (which I’m sure they get whether or not I go home with them… 
) and my job is simply to not be creepy and be discreet.
It feels like women are simply looking for a man that isn’t going to get creepy or clingy with them as soon as they show the slightest hint of sexuality. When they find a guy that they trust and connect with, (even fairly superficially) they really just want a good hard fucking. Some may be open to go through with it, some may not be, but when they find a guy that can stay connected and comfortable with sexuality, you can bet those panties are nice and wet.
So I want you to try allowing yourself to open a woman’s sexuality. It’s not about getting laid. It’s about liberating her sexuality. Consider how many guys can do it, (not many!) versus how many horny women there are (a fucking TON!) and you’ll realize that this mindset is a gift to women.
Now go out and give your gifts!
